• Published: 30 July 2018
  • Hi guys! Today's video is super TMI so I'm warning you, but I'm sharing all the things they don't tell you about childbirth! I know as a first time mama I wish I had known some of these things, so I hope they're helpful! Grab a cup of coffee and enjoy!


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Comments • 1 581

  • Kayla Buell
    Kayla Buell   2 weeks back

    Love you guys so much! Posted another TMI video here all about pregnancy TMI stuff: ❤️

    • sahar kmeyha
      sahar kmeyha  3 hours back

      How did the cat react to the baby coming home?

      • Samantha Quiroz
        Samantha Quiroz  1 days back

        I'm 15 weeks today and needed to hear all of this lol. Thanks for sharing!

        • Ariel Pogue
          Ariel Pogue  2 days back

          I am 5 months pregnant and I saved this video to watch it later since you posted in July and planned to watch it whenever I was ready. I was a little nervous about it, but I would rather be prepared than not know what is going on while giving birth. So thank you for your lovely humor and honesty, no sugar coating it, and you gave great info. This will be so helpful to me. Thank you!

          • Rae Anna
            Rae Anna  2 days back

            Man, I had an epidural only for about an hour before I pushed because after I got it I FINALLY dilated from a 6 to a 10 in an hour (after 24 hours of labor at a 6 blech), and I still felt pain with every push it was terrible, something must have gone wrong with my epidural :/.

            My baby also ended up in the NICU with an infection, pregnant with #2 hoping for no NICU this time 🤞.

            • fitmissmom89 thomas
              fitmissmom89 thomas  2 days back

              I feel like the postpartum pain you were experiencing was from rushing your body to give birth. I went natural and never had any pain after.

              • fitmissmom89 thomas
                fitmissmom89 thomas  2 days back

                I had my first with the full epidural and drugs. 5 hour labor. Hated it. I was so doped up, I don't remember any of it. My second, I went all natural. 6 hour labor, best decision I ever made. No tearing cause you have time to prepare instead of your body being forced to deliver then and there. I was up and walking and feeling great an hour later, no joke.

                • Savanah Currie
                  Savanah Currie  3 days back

                  Currently 5 months pregnant #ScaredAsFuck I’m so scared for labor 😂☠️

                  • Rebekah McDermott
                    Rebekah McDermott  3 days back

                    I had no epidural and I will say that pushing wasn’t really that painful. It was tiring and it was honestly relieving because with each contraction I wasn’t focused on the pain anymore, I was focused on the pushing and it meant it was all almost over 😂

                    Pooping for weeks after birth scared me more than the labor and birth itself lol. I had a fourth degree tear, so that possibly made matters even worse for me. I would almost be in tears at the thought of going.

                    • CloverMajula02
                      CloverMajula02  3 days back

                      I'm a little surprised she didn't mention how the nurses come in the room while you're recovering and press on your stomach to get more of the blood out. VERY painful and one of the things I don't like about childbirth. I had an epidural for my first one, but my second one was ALL natural. I don't recommend it. It was the middle of the night and 10 minutes after arriving at the hospital, she was born. No time or a chance to get an epidural T^T I was cut both times and the second time around my BF almost passed out! LOL

                      • TinaSparkles
                        TinaSparkles  4 days back

                        Oh em gee.. you poor thing, gosh 😮 I watched this thinking geez.. anything else? You should be so proud of yourself dear. Child birth is such a sacrifice.. mamas go through so much 💕 Thank you for sharing this x

                        • Lisa
                          Lisa  4 days back

                          Where I am the OBGYN we see throughout our pregnancies, are always the doctor that delivers the baby. W/ all 3 of mine they would page the Dr. once I was like 8 cm dilated and they'd be there by the time it was time to push. Unless there were to be some serious emergency for them or of me, and they couldn't wait for her to get there. Otherwise it's your Dr. However when I had my 2nd it was so fast she almost didn't make it there on time so another random Dr from the hospital was standing in. I think they should do that everywhere. It's important to have that trust and familiarity when you're going through labor. Now they did have 3 Dr.'s @ the Dr. office that you had to meet with at least one time with each of them. and they only take vacation one doctor at a time so that way they'll definitely will be one of the familiar doctors there to deliver.

                          • Laurie Stubblefield
                            Laurie Stubblefield  4 days back

                            You are great! 😂👍

                            • vintageprincess 01
                              vintageprincess 01  4 days back

                              You kind of sound like cardi b♡

                              • Ishraq Ghalghai
                                Ishraq Ghalghai  4 days back


                                • Jahmina Stephens
                                  Jahmina Stephens  5 days back

                                  I have a 10 year old and your birthing experience was very similar to mine. I wasn’t lucky to have a nice doctor, until I requested someone else I had an episiotomy that required so many stitches, that I waited three months to be intimate again. And now...I have a baby due next month. 😩 I will say that each birth is different; the first is always the longest and usually the most difficult, so that’s good.

                                  • Melina Rush
                                    Melina Rush  5 days back

                                    can everyone get an epidural??

                                    • Naomi Hart
                                      Naomi Hart  5 days back

                                      So I have 4 months left before I give birth but I've decided the baby is staying inside of me after watching this video hahaha

                                      • Benita Ruiz
                                        Benita Ruiz  5 days back

                                        "I froze my vagina " lol love your sense of humor. New subscriber!

                                        • Katrice
                                          Katrice  5 days back

                                          Omg I’m only 6 weeks and I know I’m not ready for May

                                          • Nαια Novak-Winchester

                                            Kinda long but...

                                            So my mom was in the hospital, and I was r e a d y. My mom called the nurse, and she was like “We’re gonna do some practice pushes, mmkay?” So my mom decided to push, and the nurse yelled and I was literally coming out. She immediately called the doctor, and he arrived 20 minutes later. He was yelling at the nurse, yelling that they should’ve called earlier. Then he turned to my mom and said in the sweetest voice, “Okay, are you ready?”

                                            So he stood there, and told my mom to push. She did, and the doc yelled at her. Turns out, my umbilical cord was wrapped around my throat. He had to unwrap it, and my mother pushed once more and out I shot. BUT WAIT, THeres more! I pooped inside of my mother. Yes you read that right. So, my mom didn’t get to hold me for a few minutes because they had to clear my lungs just in case I had INHALED my feces. Luckily, my grandma was/is a respiratory therapist, so she did that for me!

                                            After that long experience, I was there. My mother, a mere 20 years old, got her life on track and got married to my dad and had my sister. Now, I have a stepdad and a new sister. My other sisters were c-sections, so that’s fun.

                                            • Amanda  Mayville
                                              Amanda Mayville  5 days back

                                              Omg lmao. If you've had a level 3/4 tear, you'd appreciate the aloe vera gel infused ice pack on your lady bits. Like mine hurt so bad as a first time mom. Ice, aloe vera ice pack, and the nice spray they give you was the only way I could be comfortable.

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                                                • vonzetta reid
                                                  vonzetta reid  5 days back

                                                  They also dont tell you your baby can poop inside of you 😂😫 I was so grossed out when that happened

                                                  • Nahomi Bulted
                                                    Nahomi Bulted  5 days back

                                                    “I had a brain freeze in my vagina” 😂😂😂😂

                                                    • Sydney Rae
                                                      Sydney Rae  5 days back

                                                      My sister's water did the same thing

                                                      • Its a Great a day here in existence

                                                        I'm 3 months pregnant now I'm going for my first sonogram on Tuesday I'm really nervous about being a mom but I pray everything goes smoothly but this video is so good cuz these are things that I was really worried about so thank you so much many blessings to you and your beautiful baby and your family thank you so much for sharing

                                                        • Jolie Geo
                                                          Jolie Geo  6 days back

                                                          I loved your video. You were so honest and funny.

                                                          • emma jo
                                                            emma jo  6 days back

                                                            I thankfully had a very easy labor and delivery and didn't need an epidural, and honestly the contractions were way worse then pushing out the baby,even with no pain relief and a second degree tear! Also I only pushed 9 times and he was born, I think not having an epidural actually makes pushing go better since you can feel whats going on! But I totally understand if u need an epidural, giving birth is not for the fainthearted!

                                                            • Nicole Carr
                                                              Nicole Carr  6 days back

                                                              Them VSCO girls be comin at her for the plastic straw

                                                              • Bree Orr
                                                                Bree Orr  6 days back

                                                                thank gosh im not the only person who has those toilet dreams ahaha

                                                                • Hailey_316 Helgason
                                                                  Hailey_316 Helgason  6 days back


                                                                  • tifany andrade
                                                                    tifany andrade  6 days back

                                                                    Just FYI, you can and should shower after childbirth. Very gently. This actually should help you heal ;)

                                                                    • Mm Chocolate
                                                                      Mm Chocolate  6 days back

                                                                      You forgot to mention when the doctors push on your stomach that part is really uncomfortable

                                                                      • Cece Blue
                                                                        Cece Blue  7 days back

                                                                        In nursing school and get to watch my first delivery in the next 24 hours and wowowowow this makes me so excited

                                                                        • Arianna Holey
                                                                          Arianna Holey  1 weeks back

                                                                          Was showering and bathing painful ??

                                                                          • Andrea Marković
                                                                            Andrea Marković  1 weeks back


                                                                            • Lola Luna
                                                                              Lola Luna  1 weeks back

                                                                              I’m pregnant and terrified after this.

                                                                              • Angela Moses
                                                                                Angela Moses  1 weeks back

                                                                                Baths are okay. Ask your doctor. I wish I would've taken one 3 times a day right off the bat but I waited til the day before I left the hospital and regreted not starting sooner!!!

                                                                                • Hailey Jade
                                                                                  Hailey Jade  1 weeks back

                                                                                  i don’t want anyone cutting my asshole 😫

                                                                                  • Nicole Michaud
                                                                                    Nicole Michaud  1 weeks back

                                                                                    Still a virgin, never have wanted kids, never will have kids, but I watched the video anyways. This all just cements some of the reasons I don't want kids (other than the fact it's just not my personality at all). This is all very important information to know, and I think it needs to be taught in sex ed.

                                                                                    • Felicia Goughenour
                                                                                      Felicia Goughenour  1 weeks back

                                                                                      I love how informative your videos are! And you're right, we could totally be friends but as much as we know! 😂

                                                                                      • CraftyMummy83
                                                                                        CraftyMummy83  1 weeks back

                                                                                        Omg yes! I thought epidural takes away all pain but nooooo still agony 🤯😳

                                                                                        • -unhoelyn
                                                                                          -unhoelyn  1 weeks back

                                                                                          this is why i’m not having children. 😌

                                                                                          • Julie Anthony
                                                                                            Julie Anthony  1 weeks back

                                                                                            The bowling ball comming out the butt was spot on lol

                                                                                            • Amina Love
                                                                                              Amina Love  1 weeks back

                                                                                              My stomach literally just fell into my butt hole at the snipping part, .. I had no idea that was a thing... I just squirmed at the thought of that happening... the nausea is real. Nobody can tell me women aren’t amazing

                                                                                              • valerie short
                                                                                                valerie short  1 weeks back

                                                                                                Dont want hemmroids. Epidurals cause back pain for the rest of your life. I'd be scared to clench my teeth and crack them.

                                                                                                • Emi Menchaca
                                                                                                  Emi Menchaca  1 weeks back

                                                                                                  Who else love the cat in the background?